The Motherhood Mix Issue 006
Do you sometimes feel like you just don’t want to “mom.” Or is it just me? I’ve come to realize that this is a sign that I’m approaching burnout and need to take better care of myself. I just have so much guilt over the fact that my introverted self needs
SO. MUCH. S P A C E !
I love my kids, but my tolerance for them climbing all over me and calling me what feels like every 5 seconds to ask me for something wears me down in a way that’s hard to fully express. Having no daycare and no escape has complicated this even more. I am literally writing this with my 3 year-old climbing on my back and trying to ride me like a horse. 🤦♀️ 🐴
So, the problem-solver in me wants to fix this for all of us – because I know I can’t be the only mom feeling this way. I’m going to start exploring and studying up on self-care tactics and experimenting with ways to implement them into our already jam-packed lives. In order to make sure I have a good understanding of what other moms need, I really want to talk to you! If you’d be willing to email/text/talk over the next week or so about your challenges surrounding overwhelm/burnout/self-care, please hit reply and let me know. I promise not to take more than 20 minutes of your time and we can figure out a way to work around everything else you have going on.
If you’re interested, I’ll be adding the books I’m reading here. Don’t worry, I realize you have very little free time, so I’ll report back with the useful things I’ve learned.
I hope you have a great week!
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What do I NEED for myself today?
What do I need to AVOID or NOT DO today?